Understanding Of Clithoris

Although it's a well-known fact that the clitoris is a source of pleasure for women, sometimes guys have a hard time figuring out what do with it or even finding where it is for that matter.

Here's a guide that'll help you better understand and master this ever-important spot. Next time you're in bed, she'll be blown away by your new techniques.

about the clitoris

The clitoris is a bud-like formation that can be found where the top of a woman's inner labia (vaginal lips) begin. Usually, the clitoris lies discreetly under a layer of skin usually referred to as the "hood."

The size of the clitoris differs from woman to woman. While the average size varies from about 1/8 inch to 3/8 inch in width, there are some that are smaller and some that are bigger.

It may be surprising to know that, biologically, the clitoris is the direct equivalent of the penis. That's why when a woman gets excited, blood rushes to her clitoris and it swells up. That's her proverbial hard-on.

And if you haven't yet heard, finding the clitoris is usually a lot easier than the G-spot. As well, women tend to achieve orgasm more easily via clitoral stimulation than penetration.

how to play with it

There are a multitude of ways to arouse the clitoris, and a multitude of things you can use to do so.

Language

Speak to her. Describe a scenario that will excite her and get her blood flowing. Discuss what you're about to do to her or create a fantasy that involves other people or places.

Fingers

Make sure your hands are clean and your nails are trim. Start off by forming a peace sign with your index and middle fingers, and rub them up and down on her inner labia.

Once she's adequately wet, use the tips of those fingers to massage her clitoris in circular motions. Start off slowly and as she becomes more aroused, increase your velocity.

Every now and then, stop rubbing her clitoris and place those fingers inside her, moving in and out rhythmically. Rotate from her clitoris to inside her.

Vibrator

If your woman has difficulty reaching orgasm, a vibrator may solve her problem. Again, you need to ensure that she's adequately lubricated before you begin (or you can always use some of the water-based, store-bought variety). Turn on the toy and rub it lightly against her clitoris. Sporadically move it away from her clitoris and rub it against other parts of her vagina. Chances are the speeding vibration will have her reaching climax quickly.

Note: You can even use this toy while you're penetrating her.

Cream

There are creams available that when applied to the clitoris will force it to become engorged with blood and throb, thus making it sensitive to the touch and resulting in orgasm.

You can use such a cream in conjunction with your penis or fingers, but I wouldn't recommend using your mouth since these creams usually aren't tasty.

Mouth

The mother of all clitoral stimulators, your mouth can work wonders on a woman's clitoris. Your saliva can be used as lubrication and, of course, your tongue can serve as the "clitorator."

You can drive her crazy by swirling it, flicking it or even smacking it with your tongue. In essence, most women love a man who can eat it up well.

Penis

While most of us use our penises for penetration, you can actually use it as a prop and rub it against her clitoris for a while before you get inside. Then, when you do opt to get inside, encourage her to use her own fingers to rub her clitoris.

It may excite her to do so, and it will definitely excite you to watch her do it.

before you take a dip

Heading straight for the clitoris is not recommended; you have to arouse her body first and then make your move.

Then, as long you start off slow and work your way up the speed chart, she'll enjoy the experience. Pay attention to her reaction; it will indicate how forceful and fast you should be going.


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